So my gf has a kid...?

prude, i mean does it really matter, what are you afraid of it'd not like you are going to have to support him or put him through school. if you like her and she has a kid that you will not have to be responsible for than who cares. I don't know how many single women you know but the ones i know are really close to their kids and share more than normal but their is nothing wrong with that, it's what works for them and what you have to ask your self is, is her having this kid a deal breaker because if it's not get over it and have fun.